Studying abroad in Europe gives New York City college students a new perspective.
Come with me as we follow American college student Julianna Horn’s study abroad experience in Paris, where she learned to prioritize living in the now, and gained appreciation for a slow-paced life.
By Jacqueline Rappa
An American college student finally feels like she has adjusted and settled into her new semester abroad in Paris. During her first week here, she decided it was time to get ahead on her schoolwork while also immersing herself in this new city. She spotted a cafe down the street that seemed like the perfect place to do this. She ordered a café crème and a croissant, finally feeling somewhat like a native, and found a seat to begin typing away on her laptop. Suddenly, an employee came over and said, “No laptops on weekends.” This hardworking student spent the rest of her time there sipping her coffee in silence.
Six months prior in New York City, life was different for 22-year-old college senior Julianna Horn. A typical day would consist of hurrying down her five-flight walk-up and mobile ordering her Venti Iced Chai Latte from Starbucks. She would usually take it to go, but on days she had the time, she sat down at one of the uninviting tables to stare at her computer screen for about three straight hours.
Life in Paris has been a wake-up call for Julianna, who is studying abroad at The American Business School of Paris. As a student coming from the Fashion Institute of
Technology in New York City, she had grown accustomed to the fast-paced lifestyle and constant hustling there.
Through study abroad experiences, students gain a new perspective on work-life balance. The majority of U.S. students who study abroad choose to reside in European cities. Here, people tend to live a slower lifestyle, focusing on enjoyment and living for the day.
American students are used to busy schedules that consist of studying, term papers, and projects. “Usually, I would wait until the weekend to do all my work, but now on the weekends, I have fun and relax, which has been good for my mental health,” says Julianna. She has learned how to efficiently prioritize work during the week because she knows that weekends are strictly set aside for pleasure and unwinding.
Americans living in European cities learn to accept that most people do not work or even discuss work on the weekends. This is an adjustment for students who are eager to advance their careers and are always finding new ways to network.
“Being a student is not a job here. You’re learning,” Julianna says. Her role as a student is not her entire identity here in Paris. She is learning to view it as something that allows her to grow both academically and personally while living a fulfilled life.
At European universities, coursework is more hands-on, allowing students to complete assignments during actual class time. This leaves time for exploring the city on weekends and after school, as well as travel within Europe. There is open communication between students and professors where students can express if they need a break or more time on an assignment. Another benefit of higher education here is the smaller program sizes. Students and professors get to know each other on a personal level.
With more free time than ever before, Julianna says, “I’m reminded every day I need to slow down.” In Paris, her days are not as jam-packed. Meanwhile, back in New York, there is always a job opportunity, a new class to take, or an unpaid internship waiting for undergrads. Now, her to-do list leaves a lot more room for personal hobbies and pleasure.
Living in a European city, days tend to feel longer and lighter. “There isn’t a ‘go, go, go’ mentality like there is in New York. Dinner is usually at 8:00 so I have more time in the day to myself…At dinner you’re allowed to stay for as long as you want, so nothing is rushed,” Julianna explains.
Americans are known to engage in “antisocial” meals, where three-course dinners are eaten as quickly as possible and you’re in a hurry to get the bill. Dining out, getting drinks, or going out for coffee in Europe are all activities done to simply enjoy your surrounding company and atmosphere. It’s okay to linger around without feeling the pressure of finding the next best place to head toward.
Leisure time is something that is ingrained in European culture and provides balance for students who are not only juggling classes, but a social life, responsibilities, and health and wellness.
Living in Europe allows students to absorb the new culture around them while also growing a newfound appreciation for their personal relationships and the relationship they have with themselves. While this is a common reflection many have while studying in Europe, some are still unable to fully adjust to a slower-paced lifestyle. Julianna admits, “I miss feeling like I have to hustle, and I miss feeling very productive. I’m addicted to the American work-life culture.”
By living in a European city, Julianna realized she actually enjoyed the way she felt back home in New York. Once you’re used to a very productive routine, it can be difficult to break those tendencies. There is something thrilling about going above and beyond your own expectations and goals. Many seek validation from their academic grades and accomplishments, which American students may not receive in the same capacity in Europe.
Julianna confesses, “I’ve physically gotten kicked out of places for having my laptop out.” She’s accustomed to bringing her laptop to various establishments to focus on her academic work. “Also, if you’re talking loudly, everyone knows you’re an American.” Attending an online class or joining a Zoom work call at the local café might not be the wisest decision.
In the quest for a lifestyle that best suits their needs and habits, the opportunity to study abroad is a catalyst for personal growth among college students. This experience offers young adults a nuanced global perspective before graduating and beginning the next chapter of their lives.
About the writer:
Based in New York, Jacqueline Rappa is a writer who is passionate about all aspects of digital media. During her free time, she finds joy in reading, discovering new coffee shops, and watching her favorite movies.
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