Not everyone dreams of rolling around in a pile of cash or buying a yacht called “Liquid Assets.” Some of us would just like to live without checking our bank balance three times before tapping our card at the airport Pret. Because let’s be honest—money might not buy happiness, but it can buy plane tickets. And those are pretty close.
Financial freedom doesn’t mean becoming the next Beyoncé (unless that’s the plan—no judgment here). It simply means having the choice. The choice to say yes to new experiences, to travel, to explore, to pack a bag and disappear for a while without having to sell a kidney first.
If that’s not where you’re at right now, don’t panic. You’re not alone. But you can do something about it.
The first step? Take a brutally honest look at what’s holding you back. From bad habits to bad luck, here are 10 sneaky reasons your finances might be keeping you grounded—and what you can do to finally take off.
1. You Waste Money
We all have our weaknesses. Yours might be unused subscriptions, takeaways that turn into a lifestyle, or food waste that could feed a small village. Even small changes—like negotiating cheaper energy, selling clutter, or switching things off at night (yes, your toaster doesn’t need to stay on standby), and losing unused subscriptions—can lead to meaningful savings.
You might not notice the difference straight away, but your bank account certainly will. Give it time, and you’ll be smugly watching your savings grow.
2. Your Credit Has Been Damaged
A dodgy credit score is like that one toxic ex—it haunts you long after it’s gone. Whether it’s your own past mistakes or the work of an identity thief who’s out there living your worst financial nightmares, your credit could be dragging your future down.
Call in the professionals. An identity theft attorney can help clear the mess, clean up your record, and even win you a bit of compensation. Because if someone’s going to spend your money, the least they can do is pay you back.
3. You Were Mis-Sold A Product
Welcome to adulting: where fine print matters and things often aren’t what they seemed. If you’ve been mis-sold Insurance plans, a repayment plan, or even a car, you might be bleeding money unnecessarily.
Don’t just sit there seething—talk to an expert. If the claim’s valid, you could recover thousands. That’s holiday money. Or debt-clearing money. Or both.
4. You Are Easily Led Astray
You’re a budgeting queen 90% of the time, and then—bam—a weekend with those friends, and suddenly your overdraft has overdraft babies. We’ve all been there.
If your circle is more ‘YOLO’ than ‘financial goals’, you might need some healthy distance. And please, stop lending money out like you’re a personal bank. You’re not.
5. You Drown In Debt Repayments
Debt isn’t evil—it’s just needy. But when minimum payments only tickle the interest and never touch the capital, you’re basically in a money treadmill to nowhere. Falling behind on borrowing plans for loans, store cards, and credit cards can spell disaster.
Consider a debt payoff plan. Whether that’s snowballing (start with the smallest) or avalanching (tackle the highest interest first), the key is having a plan. You’ve got this.
6. You Settle For Less Than You’re Worth
You work hard. You show up. You know your stuff. So why are you still earning less than the intern with a TikTok side hustle?
Inflation isn’t waiting for your next performance review. Speak up. Ask for that raise, apply for that promotion, or switch to someone who knows your worth. It’s not arrogance—it’s economics. You deserve it.
7. You Don’t Make Assets Work Harder
If you’ve got stuff lying around that you don’t use, congratulations—you’re sitting on a goldmine. Sell it online, rent it, flip it—whatever makes sense.
From extra tech to your spare room, there are plenty of ways to make your possessions pay rent. Bonus: you declutter your space and your mind.
8. You Don’t Claim Your Entitlements
The support exists. The catch? You have to know about it—and then actually apply. From grants and tax exemptions to energy bill support, you might be eligible for more than you think.
Speak to an advisor, do a benefits check, and don’t let shame stop you. Claiming what’s yours is not weakness—it’s wisdom.
9. You’ve Not Considered The Future
Living in the moment is great, but one day you’ll want to stop working and still eat. Retirement planning might seem far away, but the earlier you plan, the better.
Pensions, investments, savings accounts—they’re all tools for future-you. And future-you will thank you for not leaving her to eat baked beans forever.
10. You Still Haven’t Gone For It
That side hustle? That idea? That thing you’ve always wanted to try? If it makes your eyes light up and could bring in some income—go for it.
Self-doubt is often the only thing standing between you and financial growth. Whether it’s starting your own business, freelancing, or finally hitting publish on that blog—take the leap. Who knows? Turning your writing into a self-employed business might just change everything.
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The dream isn’t just to be debt-free or to earn more. It’s to live with choice, ease, and the freedom to say yes—to adventure, to opportunities, to hopping on that cheap flight to Lisbon just because. Whether you want to travel the world or simply stop stressing every time rent is due, it starts with action. Small shifts, smart choices, and the confidence to know you deserve more.
Because the world’s a big, beautiful place—and trust me, it’s way more fun when your finances aren’t holding your passport hostage.
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